You, probably, constantly mentally ask yourself questions, but how could it be different? Perhaps, these relations would have developed differently? Or why did this happen to me?
Whether it was a long marriage or first love, no matter how impossible it all seems - your mental wound can be cured. It does not matter, 20 years old or 60, life can be filled with joy, perhaps even more than you experienced before. The only reason you can not be happy again is because you do not let go of the old situation.
I´m very glad that you made the right choice and want to end memories of your ex. This is exactly the solution that will help you recover from a break in your relationship.
Let´s talk honestly: parting is a difficult, painful topic. Most people actually after spiritual separation need mental healing. And there is nothing wrong with using the right technique for this case.
I myself have been in this situation, I know how to wake up and think about my ex. How does it wind up itself, that she now has another, and you are left completely alone. I know how to deny other girls, because they are "not as good" as your ex was. I know how difficult it is to build new relationships when you have not moved away from the previous ones.
Nevertheless, I realized that you need to move on, you need to continue your life. For this, I found a way that helped me overcome this emotional pit, and today I´m happy to share this way with you.
I will say right away that there is no magic here, and this method can not be called "secret", nevertheless, it works perfectly, and with the help of it you will be able to forget your former.